Rarely do I comment on current affairs. I do not post political news nor do I superimpose my Facebook profile picture with the flag from the most current tragedy or triumph. I do not “Like” a post so that Jesus will give me a million dollars or “Share” a post in order to show others that I support it in fear of having bad luck for the next seven years.
In 2016, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Snapchat, etc, etc dominate how the population lets the world know what they believe, what is right and what is wrong, who deserves sympathy and who deserves scorn. We judge, politicize, bully, bloviate and shame just as readily as we adore, uplift, empathize and educate. No one bothers to fact-check anything; the truth doesn’t seem necessary anymore in order to stand as fact. Everyone has an opinion and those who flood the Internet with it and have their words spun around the world via social media seem to have little regard for how their op-ed is used. Similarly, anyone is free to create both truth and acceptance of their opinion and then easily have that seized upon and touted as fact. Free speech is something that I believe in wholeheartedly. As a writer, I have to. However, does the writer now need to take more responsibility for what they write as their opinion so as not to run the risk of it seeping into the collective consciousness as truth? Does the reader not also bear the responsibility of educating themselves as to what is fact and what is opinion (not necessarily fiction)?
I am weary of being bombarded with the world’s opinions. I am weary of seeing people mindlessly hitting that “share” button before checking the factual merits. People have access to opinions, news, articles and posts about how they should live: don’t eat red meat, don’t drink alcohol, don’t eat bread, take this supplement, use this facial cream, meditate, exercise, go outdoors, think positively, black lives matter, blue lives matter, love is the answer, stop animal abuse, build a wall, drink more water, go solar, stop using plastic, house the homeless, feed the children. No one seems to have the motivation to look into anything before re-posting it as truth or worthy of merit. Those of us who don’t hit that share button often enough or comment positively (or negatively-whatever the case my be) on any given subject run the risk of public shame and the accusation of apathy.
Caring about most things has now become personal for me as has how I live, eat, exercise, smoke, drink and fuck. I have chosen to go the opposite direction than many of those in my social media sphere for several reasons: 1) not everything is everyone’s business; 2) posting something onto Facebook has never changed the mind of someone who believes differently from you; 3) opinions only matter to those that give them; 4) posting, liking or sharing something has zero effect when compared to actually doing something about it; 5) “Nothing is true, everything is permitted”.
Here’s what I think people should do: take everything with a grain of salt; do what you feel is right; take care of yourself and those within your tangible sphere of friends and family; treat people with respect, dignity and kindness; spend time in nature and with animals; mind your own business.
But that’s just my opinion.